Can Older Singles Find Love on Dating Sites?


With many seniors or older singles now using the internet, it’s natural that some will decide to try online dating sites.  Statistics show that online dating for seniors is the largest growing demographic in the online dating world with numbers swelling by 30% in 2010 ( yes that’s 7 years ago, imagine how high it is now!).  This is not surprising given that we generally live longer nowadays and divorce in the over 60s age group is at an all-time high. 

Online Dating for Seniors – Who is it For?

Online dating for seniors is ideal for older folks who are looking to make new friends, and maybe find romance.  While it’s possible to meet a future partner just about anywhere, not many of us would be comfortable giving our number to some guy we meet in the fruit and vegetable department of our local supermarket.  Mature aged people aren’t usually comfortable or interested in hanging around clubs and bars, either.  Even if they were there would more than likely be a predominantly younger crowd at these venues so they’d be highly unlikely to meet a suitable match.  For those older singles who don’t play Bingo or belong to some sort of special interest club, it can be difficult to meet and get to know people in their own age group, let alone singles of the opposite sex.  This is where online dating for seniors comes in.

Should you join an Online Dating Site?

Online dating for seniors is a great way for singles over 50 folks to make friends in their own age group and maybe even find romance.  Some dating sites cater to all age groups while others cater specifically for mature daters.  Some of these sites arrange group social outings and trips away.  These can be a good option for those who are shy or nervous at the prospect of going on a one-on-one date for what could be the first time in many years.  There really is no need for concern though.  Reputable dating sites have safety measures in place to help protect their members, the only problem you should encounter will be overcoming your shyness.  As with anything new you will probably find that once you take the plunge it won’t be anywhere near as daunting as you’d imagined and before long you’ll be enjoying yourself making new friends and expanding your social circle.

How to Find a Good Site?

Finding the best dating sites for over 50 is not that hard as you imagined. Before registering with a dating site it’s a good idea to check online for reviews of the various sites.  If you find reviews of a site that are overwhelmingly positive, check out the site itself.  There are free dating sites and sites you’ll have to pay to use.  Both usually allow potential members at least limited access before registering, so have a look around the site and see if it’s for you.  If the site is not senior specific, check to see if there are any members in your area and age group.

Once you find a site or sites you wish to join you will need to write a profile and upload a photo.  Filling out a dating profile basically involves choosing a pen name and writing a little about yourself including your likes and hobbies and what you are looking for in a partner or friend.  Remember, anyone who logs onto the site will be able to read your profile, so to be on the safe side do not include any personal or identifying information that could put you at risk.  Including a photo with your profile description is optional, but keep in mind that those who do receive a lot more interest and contact requests.

Now that you’re a fully-fledged member of the site, why not browse some profiles?  If you see someone you like the look and sound of, get in touch.  It’s really not that hard to do and you’ll be surprised at how easy it becomes after doing it once or twice.  If you’d be happier waiting for other members to contact you, that’s fine too.  Whichever way you decide to go have you’ll definitely found a love on dating sites be it romantic or platonic.

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